💥After talking to some of you last night, I got to realise that certain things need to be said one more time, and the repeated again and again. . ✅ - when you say that nobody understands you it means you do not understand someone. Who do you not understand? . ✅ - when you say that people only remember what you’ve done, it means that you only remember what others did. What needs to be changed in this type of thinking? . ✅ - when you say that there is no point in trying it over again after a failure, it means that your life is over. Is it really finished or you gonna give it as many starts as needed because you were born for a reason. . 💜 Please, do not give up! Change your plans, adjust the approach, change your goals, change your partner but do not give up!
#clarity #goodmorning#oksanaroma#superwoman #NVGVUP
This one was difficult for me. Learning that loving myself doesn’t have to equal vanity. It can mean letting go of self blame and anger, believing in our power and feeling at peace in our own minds and bodies. 💞✌🏼 #tothyownselfbetrue
Do you know how it feels to have people closest to you out for you it's like dam I sent all the messages letting them know I didn't want to be in no shid but to feel like they killing you says a lot you can call everything out an they still wanna play you or use they tell me keep doing what you doing everything will be good but gut feeling makes me feel as if I'm the one they are killing so god help me please.
New VLOG/BLOG Post
Had a burning desire to talk about this, so why not?! Excuses = You being lazy and not loving yourself
Just a little food for thought
The shit you do & excuses you make has everything to do with you, and nothing to do with the people around you. So stop making excuses!
Say "boy/girl bye!"
Start hitting the gym
Put the cookie down
Get the job you want
and Stop MAKING EXCUSES
Start loving yourself, and check yo'self before you wreck yo'self
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From Love Is
by Susan Polis Schutz
Love is . . . Being happy for the other person when they are happy, Being sad for the person when they are sad, Being together in good times, And being together in bad times.
LOVE IS THE SOURCE OF STRENGTH.
Love is . . . Being honest with yourself at all times, Being honest with the other person at all times, Telling, listening, respecting the truth, And never pretending.
LOVE IS THE SOURCE OF REALITY.
Love is . . . An understanding so complete that you feel as if you are a part of the other person, Accepting the other person just the way they are, And not trying to change them to be something else.
LOVE IS THE SOURCE OF UNITY.
Love is . . . The freedom to pursue your own desires while sharing your experiences with the other person, The growth of one individual alongside of and together with the growth of another individual.
LOVE IS THE SOURCE OF SUCCESS.
Love is . . . The excitement of planning things together, The excitement of doing things together.
LOVE IS THE SOURCE OF THE FUTURE.
Love is . . . The fury of the storm, The calm in the rainbow.
LOVE IS THE SOURCE OF PASSION.
Love is . . . Giving and taking in a daily situation, Being patient with each other's needs and desires.
LOVE IS THE SOURCE OF SHARING.
Love is . . . Knowing that the other person will always be with you regardless of what happens, Missing the other person when they are away but remaining near in heart at all times.
LOVE IS THE SOURCE OF SECURITY.
LOVE IS . . . THE SOURCE OF LIFE!
If you don’t have the mental capacity to be that obsessed about what you’re trying to get. Then you ain’t never gonna have it.
If you don’t have the mental capacity to be that obsessed about what you’re trying to get. Then you ain’t never gonna have it.
After a little spill yesterday my handlebars and left shifter was bent inward pretty badly. I was pretty upset thinking Id be without my bike for several days and have to spend quite a bit in repairs...HUGE shoutout to @rosshorsley and the staff @middletown_cycling for getting me straightened out (pun intended 🤣) within 15 mins and at a fraction of what I thought it could cost. Im extremely new to cycling and they could have told me any amount and I wouldn't have none any better. These guys have been phenomenal since day one and I would HIGHLY recommend them for everything you could need related to cycling. Before, during, and after the sale they've been there to help and take care of us! Thanks again to everyone there! 🚴♂️👊 #cycling#biking#localbikeshop#honesty#customerservice#supportlocalbusiness#louisville#502keepsfit#trust#louisvillecycling
Peter, can I use your phone to go online? I have been realizing that what a party proposes to cut is as important as what they support. Why isn't information on cuts in more party platforms Peter?
Steak, apples, blueberries, broccoli, avocado and eggs. This is how your meals should look. Whole and healthy food. No bullshit. Fasting protocol is eating every other day Monday through Friday and then a big meal early in the day Saturday and Sunday. Fuels training and fat loss all at once throughout the week. Takes discipline and consistency which everyone I’ve come across in my personal life fucking LACKS. All of you. Haven’t found anyone who’s all around discipline, consistency and honesty matches mine. It’s upsetting because I’m not special..and it’s why everyone is stressed the fuck out. Good luck with that. .
100% natural - #nofilter (and no makeup 😜) Got to be honest; My life is at the point where it seems impossible to move on without changes. And I got a feeling some changes are going to hurt. 🤕
I promised to be true and straight forward with you guys!
MY LIFE IS NO 💃🏼 ON 🌹(S)! Stress (in what some - including my parents - would call a mild form), depression leading to panic attacks, anxiety of being denied and rejected and I am scared for life - body and soul. 😳
My body is on overload - body and mind! 🤯
The most important thing I have learned (or am still learning) is that there will always be someone who ❤️ u for who u are. I still doubt this from time to time, 😬but I got people to keep reminding me of this - not all are this lucky I know! 😔
That I battle with all this, does not mean I have learned to live with them yet. I have been rejected all my life by numerous people and I don’t know if I will ever learn, that it’s not my fault, but their loss. 😶
I can give you the words, but I cannot give you the believe, when I still find it hard I believe myself.
3-4 years of mental health problems going up and down. Just a few months ago I accidentally acted in a way I never had thought my self to do, but I was on rock bottom... 🔪😭I am not proud of the scar it has left or of the reason behind.
I hided it and showed it off at the same time. It was my calling for a help I was not ready to receive. 🤐
Read this: I might smile on the majority of my pictures, but my tears are not far away. I cry at least once a day...🙃
Remember this the next time you look at that picture perfect. No one is perfect they might just choose to show you nothing but the perfect.... 📸: Usually taking pictures with snapchat or while covering my chin.. Now posting iPhone selfi-cam picture. My asymmetrical face annoys me, but today I knew I had to share.
No matter the situation..
Great good bad or down right ugly. What matters is how you react to that situation.. Are you able to be bold or do you find yourself hiding or shielding the truth.. my truth is always at the front of my lips. Even the hardest truths need to be spoken you can free with truth and you then give permission for others to speak and become free.. the painful truth is still freeing, as one can then choose to act in accordance with that truth.. Remember moment to moment our truth can shift as we shift so dose our perception of our truth.. Whatever you hear or speak ask yourself is this truth to me right now in this moment will it be true later on?
Honesty and friendship bring you fortune. Lucky Numbers 50, 55, 34, 6, 48, 51 #honesty #friendship 南瓜 #pumpkin
One month and I’m back on the beach 🏝 with this handsome man @klein0449 I honestly never knew that time would make me fall more in love with this man!! .
It’s rare that high school sweethearts stay together!! Well, we have most people beat!! No matter what marriage is a team effort! It’s based off trust, respect, loyalty, honesty and most importantly communication! You know that saying “happy wife, happy life” well I like “happy Spouse, happy house” love yourself and take care of each other! Life is short and love is hard to find! Be kind and loyal and always have each other’s back, our marriage tip is to never go to bed mad at each other... it’s important to resolve whatever is on your mind before you close your eyes!! .
Lastly, be kind and always show your affection, I’m not the best at the affection part but I sure try!!! Figure out each other’s love languages because believe it or not those are important!!
The day we met is still so vivid in my mind!!! His eyes and smile had me the minute I saw him!!! .
All I see is Blue💙
sometimes feeling and thinking can be all mixed up, good and bad, love and hate... recognizing yourself can be difficult enough,
so give credit to yourself for knowing what you honestly feel and think inside, inseucirty, fear, lameness, materialistic, jealousy, etc.
Recognition is the best first step, so we can continue to work with ourselves. .
#illustration #drawing#recognition#comic#story#selfcare#acceptance#honesty #自我了解 #認知 #接受 #畫 #插畫 #画 #絵 #我
🗣🗣 get off your phone and tap into your CHILDREN, the biggest contribution you’ll leave behind to this world !!!!! Teach some RESPECT and for the love of God MANNERS!!! Please, THANKKKKK YOUUUUU , you’re welcome- not strenuous or irrational ideas to start with!!! If my four year old , yes IF MY FOUR YEAR OLD respectfully answers “ yes ma am, no ma am” then I promise , you too have hope at instilling manners in your children , please. Society reaps what you sew 🧵 #love#honesty#respect
“Letting Go of All I Have Previously Known” is a new post on my blog about letting go of past hurt and embracing new experiences head on. Reaching out into the future is absolutely terrifying, especially when everything feels so new. Letting go is hard, but the past has the ability to hinder your present and future in negative aspects if you do not take time to heal and practice forgiveness. Much love ❤️
This MAN Right Here Is Uncle Elric. I Haven’t Visited Him In Over 7 Years For Reasons That Run Deeper Than An IG Post Can Embrace. That Said, Yesterday I Made Sure I Changed That And I’m Very Happy I Did. •
Uncle Elric Originated From Humble Beginnings In The Caribbean 🇰🇳 And Raised Two Great Sons Alongside His Wife Of Many Years. My Mother Respected Her Brother Greatly And That Respect Was Fortified Within Me As I Witnessed How He Navigated Fatherhood, Being A Husband, Employment & More. •
While My Dad Took Me To Cricket Games (no shade 🤣), Uncle Elric Introduced Me To The Yankees & The Knicks. After My Parents Divorced, I Lived With His Family For A Little While (a much needed semblance of normalcy). He Showed By Example How A Man Cooks For His Children; Cleans; Disciplines When Warranted; Delegated Chores; & Took Care Of His Wife While Also Keeping His Own Hobbies & Interests Intact. Uncle Elric Literally Got Me Thru 9th Grade Algebra & Taught Me How To Drive. His Imprint Upon My Teenage Life Was Huge. •
It Wasn’t All Sunshine & Roses Either: His Approach Could Be Considered Gruff At Times But It Was Never Ill-Intentioned. If He Thought Your Ass Needed A Reprimand, You Heard It From New York To The Moon! 😂 And Although Teenage Cecil’s Tendency Was To Let Someone Know How I Thought With A Quickness, I Never Did That With Uncle Elric. I Respectfully Listened Because Even When He Was Wrong About Something He Thought I Did Or Where I Was Going In My Life, I TRUSTED He Was Well-Intentioned. 90% Of His Behavior Just Meant Everything To Me Compared To His 10%! No One Is Perfect But Worthy Is Rare In My Book. Uncle Elric Has Always Been Worthy In My Book. •
Today I Make Myself Accountable For Never Having The Moxie To Tell Him Any Of This. Truth Is I Feared Losing Him & What He Represented When Teenage Cec Needed His Strongest Male Figure The Most. That Said, That Was Then. More Than Enough Time Has Passed 🤦🏽♂️ •
Fear Is The Opposite Of Love & I’m Not About That Life At All. So My Goal Is To Share This With Him Before 2019 Ends! If You Have Someone To Show Appreciation To, I Encourage You To Do So. Make It Happen!! 😊
✍️ OkFirst OffNever Saying OnFleek again.................
➖➖➖➖➖➖➖💙💙➖🥳itsMy #Birthday#BirthDayMan➖➖➖ iTurned #27 and SUPER Thankful for where I am at inMy Life—- ThankS to One and ONLY #Allah —- NoBody can take credit for that expect Allah💚 ThankYou for making my path easier. I set a goal toChange MyLife and I did it. 😘——👊Future#Dj#Producer#Singer#Dancer-Entertainer#Fitness—mogul #inventor#LIFECoach #RunwayModel————IWant itALL. — ThereOnly Dreams ifYou don’t GoAfter it 💫With#Persistence#Faith iWill 🤜Attain🤛————- iFound TheKey ToLife—— 🔑its#Honesty NotA Single Lie 🙅♂️Since iOpened This#instagram in#November 2018———— #ShavedMyHead ForThis Path——-♾ #ShawnMendes#ifiCantHaveYou#inMyBlood 💙➖#CheekScarVibes —➖➖➖➖➖➖💪🥶🤳 @djhabibi7habibi➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖🤜➖ #JustDoit#The7habibiWay 🤛 ——-NeverForGet The#Apple_Finger because it’s meant to be used forGood. NeverEver ForBad MegaBye—-🦶 ToThe Hu➖men ThatMade itA NegativeRemark 🤨 ——- 🖕❌human❌
————————————————————————e—✍️#حبيبي #نبيل ➖ بموت فيكي يا #شام 💚
The reason it’s so difficult to meet and exceed expectations is because we’re human. That means we’re inefficient, ineffective, and statistically unsuccessful. What happens is we promise to provide value, making representations of what we’re going to do, and end up creating a void for us to fill—overpromising and underdelivering.
Because of our natural inefficiencies, ineffectiveness, and lack of statistical success, we tend to oversell and backend sell in order to meet or exceed those expectations.
I only focus in on providing value and being of service. When we do that, we are living closer to the truth and we leave a void, not for us to fill, but for the universe to fill. And the greatest thing is that the universe is exact.
When we are of service first and provide value without any expectations, representations, or promises, the universe provides back to us the right way, at the perfect time.
It’s in your moment of raw honesty that Jesus rolls up his sleeves and begins to restore you by his grace. I know that sounds like a churchy thing to say, but God totally understands your struggle. You can come to him in any condition. He loves you in your slobbery, ugly, vulnerable, flailing mess. He welcomes your doubts, frustrations, questions, and confusion. His mind is already made up about you on the cross. It’s in your exposed humanity that God’s grace really works, and it won’t work any other way. You don’t have to hide @jspark3000
An amazing thing happens when you get honest with yourself and start doing what you love, what makes you happy. Your life literally slows down. You stop wishing for the weekend. You stop merely looking forward to special events. You begin to live in each moment and you start feeling like a human being. You just ride the wave that is life, with this feeling of contentment and joy. You move fluidly, steadily, calm and grateful. A veil is lifted, and a whole new perspective is born.
Honesty and transparency make you vulnerable. Be honest and transparent anyway.
ЦЕНИТЕ ВСЕ, ЧТО У ВАС ЕСТЬ ‼️
Вот смотрите, какая штука жизнь. Мы не всегда ценим, что мы имеем в жизни. Любовь, заботу старания близких, советы, напутствия родителей и так далее. Мы думаем 🤔, что мы взрослые, сами разберёмся. Но в жизни случается так, что там сверху "кто-то" видит как мы пренебрегаем всеми этими моментами и готовит для нас различные испытания.
Так вот, чтобы эти испытания прошли нас всех стороной, научимся ценить все, что у нас есть в жизни: близких людей и их поступки, советы родителей, заботу и возможно даже нравоучения. Нужно жить и радоваться, что мы имеем то, что имеем. Нет собственного жилья??? Не беда, нужно стремиться и оно появится 👍Нет хорошей зарплаты и нет возможности купить все, что покупают другие..... 🤔 Ну и ладно, ведь не в этом суть. Суть в том, чтобы ценить все, что есть у нас, для нас, о нас =) 😘
Сегодня проснулись сутра, ваши любимые рядом, живы здоровы, есть за что купить хлеб 🥖 и так далее, и хорошо =) Ну понятно же, что нам хочется много всего, много желаний, много проблем, множество мыслей и планов на жизнь.....
И ПОВЕРЬТЕ 👆👆👆Это все может быть у каждого из нас! =) Мечты обязательно сбудутся, планы обязательно воплотятся в жизнь, все будет: и деньги, и уважение и забота, и любовь 😍 Всё мы получим взамен лишь тогда, когда сами научимся НЕ ТОЛЬКО требовать, просить, но и когда научимся ОТДАВАТЬ И ЦЕНИТЬ ВСЕ, ЧТО НАМ В ЖИЗНИ ДАНО ‼️‼️‼️
Я не знаю был ли этот пост для вас чем-то значимым, но я поделилась с вами своими мыслями.
И мне очень хочется услышать ваши мысли и комменты на этот счёт 👋☝️❤️‼️
هاي يا صبايا!
في موضوع خاطري نحكي فيه لان بجديات مضايقني!
البعض يقول ان مابين الصراحة و الوقاحة خيط رفيع جدا و اللي يجهل الخيط هذا يقع في الفخ!
و في اللي يقول الصراحة و الوقاحه شئ واحد بس الفرق في طريقه العرض 🌸💙 أنا مش الأشخاص اللي نتقبل النقد بشرط يكون نقد بناء و الهدف منه الإصلاح و بطريقه تكون لبقه من غير ما تجرحيني او اضايقني😒 بالعكس لما تنتقديني بطريقه محترمه حناخد نقدك بعين الاعتبار و حندير به لان نقدك هدفه التوجيه و التصليح!
أما الشخص اللي ينتقد لمجرد الانتقاد و الإحباط و بكلام سخيف و جارح فهذا الشخص اقل ما يقال عليه انه شخص وقح و انتقاده مستحيل ناخد به بالعكس نصكر راسي اكثر و ندير عكسه😌
في ناس يبرروا في اسلوبهم الوقح ان هما صريحين ما يعرفون ان كلمتهم هادي تجرح الشخص المتلقي ممكن هو ما يبينش في وقتها بس ياما في ناس جتهم حتى حالات نفسيه من كلام ينقال ليهم لان في أشخاص شادينها في جرتهم بالتعليقات!
ف رجاء خاص جدا راعو مشاعر الناس في كلامكم لان كل واحد فينا فيه اللي مكفيه و زيادة! مش ضروري نجرحوا بعض بالكلام!
خلوا كلامكم ديما طيب مع الناس و خلوا لسانكم رطب مش حتخسروا شئ بالعكس حتحببوا الناس فيكم🌸💙
هادي حاجه وصى بها الله سبحانه و تعالى ووصى بها سيدنا محمد عليه الصلاة و السلام ف خلوها ديما في بالكم 🌸💙 هل انتوا موافقيني في الرأي او لا ؟
احكولي هل اتعرضتوا قبل لكلام او نقد جارح اثر فيكم من قبل؟